A Kiss

Urania By David Jacobi

A Kiss

A kiss

Runs to my lips

Who is it looking for

What does it want

Does it know

Where it is going

Has it been anywhere

Is it happy

Or sad

Or some place in between

A kiss

Is ready to leave me

It might win

Or loose

It might not care

A kiss

Is coming

Are you ready

(2000) By David Jacobi

I began writing poems as a kid, and have enjoyed creating them, off and on, ever since. Poetry is hard to appreciate, or even read, because it is the jottings of people who are out of their minds. Not crazy, there is a difference. Many people can not lose themselves, get out of their minds, because the many distractions of life don’t allow them much free time. Poets make the time to wander, wonder, ponder, lose themselves and go out of their minds. I am going to share one of my poems a month. Most of them are pretty short, and they can’t compare to the works of the good poets that made a living out of writing poetry. I like to dabble here and there while occasionally going out of my mind.

Van Morrison

Van The Man

When I was younger I would try to convince others of the worth of a musician, artist, actor, poet, writer, etc by force of argument and debate. No more. Now I will recommend something and then stand back, getting out of your way if you want to pursue, but not badgering if you don’t. I really don’t remember when I discovered the music of Van Morrison. It probably happened with the heavy rotation of “Domino” and “Brown Eyed Girl,” which continues to this day on oldies radio stations. If you didn’t know anything else about the man you would suppose those were the only two songs he sang.

In the 1980’s I went to stay with a cousin in Omaha for the weekend and I was teased relentlessly for being a Van The Man fan. He was into obscure punk stuff, which was fine by me but you can only go so far with punk before it wears you out and you are begging for something with a melody that does not make you want to bang your head against a wall. And that’s when you put on some Van Morrison. His music ranges from contemplative to danceable, and incorporates Celtic, blues, jazz, folk and rock into an easily recognizable style. If you are not familiar with his music I recommend trying the album “Astral Weeks.” If after listening to that you are intrigued to hear more just jump in anywhere, from “Moondance” to “The Prophet Speaks,” and welcome to the club. If not, you can always try GG Allin.

The Roundup

Our view to the south

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Have a good weekend!

Sticks, Twigs, Branches and Limbs

A very small percentage of the sticks we have picked up this spring

Before we could mow the grass on the acreage for the first time this year we had to pick up the wood debris that had been blown down by the fierce winter winds. The majority of the trees here are white willows, a beautiful tree that sways in the wind, until it breaks. We are nearing the end of this chore, begun several weeks ago, and totaling dozens of large garbage cans and totes full of twigs and sticks, while the larger branches and limbs are tossed onto the brick foundation where a corn crib used to be, to be cut down to size with a miter saw or a chainsaw. We have been having fires in our outdoor hearth and our stone campfire ring to get rid of the excess wood. Once the containers are empty we fill them back up in the next couple of days from a different section of the yard and have another fire. And another. When we lived in the city I carefully maintained several boxes of dry kindling in our small garage for our fires in the hearth on our deck, never dreaming that we would someday have such a surplus of wood we could have roaring fires several times a week. An embarrassment of riches, but I have followed my old habits and put up many totes of wood in the shed, and stacked wood close to the fire ring for future use. There is nothing else to do with the rest, so we have been enjoying more spring campfires than I think we ever have before.

Website Review: The Art of Manliness

Another monthly feature will be a website review.

This month the feature is The Art of Manliness. I have subscribed to the AoM newsletter for quite a few years, and have enjoyed the advice, tutorials, history lessons, reviews, and just general information about how to be a better, more complete, confident and stronger man.

The “about” page summarizes the scope of this excellent site better than anything I could write: “The mission of AoM is to get men not only reading and listening to our content, but ultimately implementing what they learn into their lives; through our articles, podcasts, books, and programs, AoM aims to help men, as Theodore Roosevelt put it, “Get action.” We seek to help men grow up well, reach their potential, become better friends, mentors, husbands, fathers, and citizens, and live a life of eudamonia — skill, flourishing, excellence, and virtue.”

Well worth your time to check it out. Don’t forget to subscribe to the newsletter!

Recipes, Cooking and Gardening

Some of our recipe books

Once a month I will share a recipe, a post about cooking or one about gardening. On a previous blog I posted around 30 of our family’s favorite recipes, so they would be archived and available for use. I won’t repeat those recipes on this blog, so here is a link to them if you are interested.

For this month I want to share a cooking tip I learned a few years back about homemade soup. I imagine most of you already know this, but for the few that might not it can really make a difference. After your homemade soup is fully cooked choose a can of cream soup that most closely parallels the type or flavor of your soup. Add the cream soup to a blender, throw in some shredded or cubed cheese and then fill the remainder with ladles of the soup you have just cooked. Blend it and then pour the contents into your homemade soup to make a thicker, cheesy version. I have also added a leftover diced baked potato or a package of instant potatoes to the blender ingredients.

Bon Appétit!

Opal Whiteley

Opal Whiteley

Over the winter one of the books I read was The Singing Creek Where The Willows Grow, The Rediscovered Diary of Opal Whiteley by Benjamin Hoff. Opal was a naturalist, teacher, writer, lecturer and traveler born in 1897 in Washington, who grew up in Oregon. She kept a diary for a number of years starting as a child and, for reasons well explained in the introduction of the book, she was eventually discredited as a fraud and slowly descended into fantasy and mental illness, spending the last 44 years of her life in a psychiatric hospital in England. The author makes a very well presented and convincing case that the hoax Opal was accused of was created and relentlessly pushed by the press and her skeptics. The bulk of the book is a segment of one of her earliest diaries, in which Opal as a charming, observant little girl describes her life among the trees and animals, family and neighbors. She endures, shrugs off and even in a way embraces various hardships and sad episodes that she records in her diary. Her numerous pets have long, elaborate names. She attempts to assist her mother around the house in what she considers a logical, helpful way that usually ends in disaster. But the crux of the diary, what Opal returns to again and again, is her love of nature. It talks to her, guides her, is all encompassing; it loves her and she returns the love. This six year old child prodigy describes her surroundings in a magical way, drawing you into her world. Her last line in the diary section of the book: “The great pine tree is saying a poem, and there is a song in the tree-tops.” Get a copy and enjoy, and the next time you are in the woods listen for the poems and songs.

The Roundup

Our view to the north

With a previous blog (you can check it out here) I ran a series called the Weekly Roundup, which would link to sites I thought were useful, interesting, or both. I enjoyed sharing what I found so I am going to revive the series on this blog, but not weekly for now. Welcome to The Roundup.

Check out Family Handyman for great how to tips, do it yourself projects, videos and much more. Make sure to subscribe to their free newsletters while you are there.

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Theodore Dalrymple has been a regular read and a favorite of mine for several years now. You can read some of his essays and learn more about him here and here.

Have a good weekend!

Dreaming and Yearning

A few of the books we have collected over the years in anticipation of country living

Shelly comes from a country and small town beginning, and I am a born and bred city boy. When we bought our house in the city we settled in and raised our two kids, experiencing school events, sports, plays, scouts, friends and neighbors, family and work. Typical lives, with the same ups and downs as everyone else. Shelly was able to work from home for a few years and I worked for the same company downtown for over 18 years. The country dream came over us slowly. We gardened in our small plot under the large oak tree next to the garage, and canned and froze what we grew. We joined with some family and bought beef several times from a locker to store in our upright freezer. We built up and maintained a large pantry in the basement, including water. We cooked from scratch, and planted beautiful perennials around our yard. Over the years we amassed every kind of yard, garden and power tools we could use, and some we couldn’t, just in case. Every Sunday afternoon, weather permitting, we took the kids out to a park. Several times a year we would camp, and for a few years we would take a family vacation up north or head west. We would marvel at the wide open spaces, and the big sky at night. I kept collecting and reading homesteading, gardening, wildlife and how to books, and Shelly and I began to talk more and more about getting out of the city. Dreaming turned to yearning. Now that it has happened not everything is exactly what we expected (last winter especially) but we feel right at home here in the country.